Take a breath...how? (Breathing for pregnancy and labor)

The Fear-Tension-Pain cycle can have a dramatic impact on how we experience the sensations of labor, and thus on our ability to work with those sensations. Simply put, when we are afraid, our bodies tense, and when we are holding excessive tension in muscles, we feel more discomfort, and an understandable emotional response to feeling increased discomfort and pain would be greater fear, and thus we create a downward spiral.

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Stop scaring pregnant people!

I open my inbox, and see the words I hate to see from a student. “I just heard the worst birth story from my friend…” My heart sinks. She goes on to describe how a friend at a backyard barbeque had recounted the story of his wife’s “brutal” labor – this was the word he apparently used- and that this story had been further reinforced by another friend who worked as a midwife.

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